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Lori Rubenstein,
Divorce Coach

Transcending Divorce...

The Book, the Support, and the Coach who can help you break through to freedom, forgiveness, and empowerment after ANY divorce

Simply put, divorce hurts.

At separation, you have a storm of feelings: desperation, depression, confusion, anger, hurt, fear, sadness, and an overwhelming sense of the unknown. You might wonder, "how will I ever get past the hurtful things my partner did and said to me? How can I ever trust again?"

There's hope. It's called Transcending Divorce-the groundbreaking program of recovery.

With Transcending Divorce, you won't have to wait years for "time to heal all wounds." In fact, imagine that at the end of this journey, you feel more self-assured and confident with a strong knowing that the divorce not only happened for your benefit-but it was actually a gift?

Yes. I know that seems like a lot to promise.

And, maybe you're not ready to hear that there could be anything good after the hurt-let alone something that can be seen as a gift-but that is exactly Transcending Divorce delivers.

Transcending Divorce: A Guide for Personal Growth and Transformation by Lori Rubenstein will lead you to that place.

Lori Rubenstein, a family law attorney for 18 years, a life coach, teacher and author, will take you through the pain to the other side.

Based on her personal experiences as a child of divorce, stepparent, living in a blended family, and single parenting, Lori teams up her personal knowledge and experiences with those of thousands of clients who passed through divorce to other side. With an easy step-by-step workbook, you go from victim to survivor-and ultimately-to thriver!

Truly transforming......, April 19, 2007 Lori Rubenstein is the real deal. She has the ability to lead people through the painful terrain of divorce to a place stronger and happier than they ever thought possible. This book is a perfect distillation of her teachings. If you want to feel better and have your life transform into something truly good then read this book and follow its suggestions! Kristi McGree

For $24.95, your life can change, right now. Order the book, Transcending Divorce: A Guide for Personal Growth and Transformation.

And there is a full 100% money-back guarantee on the book itself. If you read the book and do the exercises, I will personally guarantee you, like other clients and readers of the book, will move from your pain into a place of peace.

If you are an on-line reader, Click here to order a PDF download of the book for only $16.95.

 

Lori Rubenstein's new book Transcending Divorce, A Guide for Personal Growth and Transformation is helping me work through the rage and resentment of my divorce. While a few chapters are really tough to work through, I am indebted to her for my personal growth during this very difficult time. Karen H.

Ongoing support beyond the book.

When you buy the book, you have the option of signing up for a telephone class and discussion group with Lori. Her knowledge, compassion and loving support is available to you no matter where you live. You can also gain one-on-one access to Lori by signing up for personal life-after-divorce or relationship coaching.

Lori will hold you big when you feel small. When you doubt yourself, doubt your abilities, Lori will hold you as smart and wise. When you feel broken, Lori holds you as whole and capable.

Transcending Divorce - get it for yourself, a friend or a loved one.

The benefits of Transcending Divorce go on and on. If you have a friend going through a separation or divorce, this is the GREATEST GIFT you can get them.

1. Learn to understand that divorce is truly a gift that leads towards your spiritual and emotional self growth.

2. Move into love, forgiveness, and appreciation for the life lessons you learned from your spouse.

3. Move from the place of victim to the place of the healed survivor.

4. Understand and take responsibility for your part in the breakup.

5. Release guilt and shame and forgive yourself for your part in the breakup.

6. Learn to be kind to yourself. At the beginning, just getting out of bed and breathing is enough. You get credit for that. Sleeping and eating is your next goal. Anything after that is a gold star!

7. Recognize the problems which were yours and work on them so you don't repeat them in the next relationship.

8. Gain clarity and acknowledge the marriage for what it was, not what it purported to be to the world. What was the truth of your marriage?

9. Learn to release the "shoulds" from society, church, friends, co-workers, and take responsibility only for what you authentically are responsible for.

10. Learn to be your child's advocate.

11. Move into a place of happiness by taking baby steps. The workbook lessons with transform you into different, more enlightened, wiser, happier person.

12. Acknowledge your strength. No matter how many marriages you have had, you acknowledge yourself for being a person willing to risk love, and with that vulnerability, recognize your courage.

13. Develop enough faith and esteem in yourself to know that yes, someday, you will love again.

4. Learn to let go of your "marital dreams" and to create dreams of your own.

15. Learn how to put your children's needs ahead of your own to the extent that you are able to make the divorce a grown-up decision and not destroy the children's self-esteem or love for the other parent.

16. Embrace healthy, proven ways to comfort yourself, through journaling, answering the questions in the book, meditation, friends, support groups, dancing, massage, pedicures and pampering.

17. Realize your own intuition is trustworthy and can guide you through this process.

18. Know that you might be scared, your future is unknown, and yes, you can handle it all!

19. Discover that your own self-care is a must for handling this time in your life.

20. Develop an emotional support system.

For $24.95, your life can change, right now. Order the book, Transcending Divorce: A Guide for Personal Growth and Transformation.

21. Become a better parent, spend more quality time with your children, and attuned to the needs of your children and validate their feelings for the other parent.

22. Gain power. Once you know you can handle the heartbreak of a divorce, the other little road bumps of life seem pretty simple.

23. Keep your power throughout the divorce and learn how to not give your power away. Use the key questions in Chapter 2 to ask your attorney, mediator or custody evaluator.

24. Learn to accept and appreciate the feelings you have, not to fight them, not to shame or should yourself. But really feel them; soon, you recognize new feelings, those of acceptance, peace, neutrality.

25. Learn to release black and white thinking and become more flexible with your beliefs.

26. Recognize the negative "gremlin" thinking, release the frequency of "gremlin" thinking, and eventually replace it with positive thoughts and intention.

27. Learn to accept and dare I say, even LOVE yourself where you are, right now.

28. Learn to see your marriage, your past, through the eyes of gratitude and appreciation. See it as a blessing, and you will attract many more wonderful blessings into your life.

29. Learn to develop new traditions and holidays.

30. Gain clarity about your values and rules by which you live your life. Which values were and which were not supported by your marriage.

For $24.95, your life can change, right now. Order the book, Transcending Divorce: A Guide for Personal Growth and Transformation. And remember, there is a 100% money-back guarantee on the book.

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Transcending Divorce
written by
Lori Rubenstein

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