Transcending
Divorce...
The
Book, the support, and the Coach who can help you break through
to freedom, forgiveness, and empowerment after ANY divorce
Simply
put, divorce hurts.
At
separation, you have a storm of feelings: desperation, depression,
confusion, anger, hurt, fear, sadness, and an overwhelming sense
of the unknown. You might wonder, "how will I ever get past the
hurtful things my partner did and said to me? How can I ever trust
again?"
There's
hope. It's called Transcending Divorce - the groundbreaking program
of recovery.
With
Transcending Divorce, you won't have to wait years for "time to
heal all wounds." In fact, imagine that at the end of this journey,
you feel more self-assured and confident with a strong knowing that
the divorce not only happened for your benefit-but it was actually
a gift?
Yes.
I know that seems like a lot to promise.
And,
maybe you're not ready to hear that there could be anything good
after the hurt-let alone something that can be seen as a gift-but
that is exactly Transcending Divorce delivers.
Transcending
Divorce: A Guide for Personal Growth and Transformation
by Lori Rubenstein will lead you to that place.
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John
Gray, Ph.D., author of the Men Are From Mars, Women Are
From Venus series of books, says this about Lori's book:
"Transcending
Divorce gives people hope
when they are at a low point. It is both refreshing and filled
with practical insights to assist readers in speeding up the
healing process and finding the gift in divorce."
John Gray is the world's #1-selling relationship and gender
expert.
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Lori
Rubenstein, a family law attorney for 18 years, a life coach, teacher
and author, will take you through the pain to the other side.
Based
on her personal experiences as a child of divorce, stepparent, living
in a blended family, and single parenting, Lori teams up her personal
knowledge and experiences with those of thousands of clients who
passed through divorce to other side. With an easy step-by-step
workbook, you go from victim to survivor-and ultimately-to thriver!
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Truly transforming......, April 19, 2007
Lori
Rubenstein is the real deal. She has the ability to lead people
through the painful terrain of divorce to a place stronger
and happier than they ever thought possible. This book is
a perfect distillation of her teachings. If you want to feel
better and have your life transform into something truly good
then read this book and follow its suggestions!
Kristi
McGree
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For
$24.95, your life can change, right now. Order the book, Transcending
Divorce: A Guide for Personal Growth and Transformation.
And there is a full 100%
money-back guarantee on the book itself. If you read the book
and do the exercises, I will personally guarantee you, like other
clients and readers of the book, will move from your pain into
a place of peace.
If
you are an on-line reader, Click
here to order a PDF download of the book for only $16.95.
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Lori
Rubenstein's new book Transcending Divorce, A Guide for
Personal Growth and Transformation is helping me work
through the rage and resentment of my divorce. While a few
chapters are really tough to work through, I am indebted to
her for my personal growth during this very difficult time.
Karen
H.
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Ongoing
support beyond the book.
When
you buy the book, you have the option of signing up for a telephone
class and discussion group with Lori. Her knowledge, compassion
and loving support is available to you no matter where you live.
You can also gain one-on-one access to Lori by signing up for personal
life-after-divorce or relationship coaching.
Lori
will hold you big when you feel small. When you doubt yourself,
doubt your abilities, Lori will hold you as smart and wise. When
you feel broken, Lori holds you as whole and capable.
Transcending
Divorce - get it for yourself, a friend or a loved one.
The
benefits of Transcending Divorce go on and on. If you have a friend
going through a separation or divorce, this is the GREATEST
GIFT you can get them.
1.
Learn to understand that divorce is truly a gift that leads towards
your spiritual and emotional self growth.
2.
Move into love, forgiveness, and appreciation for the life lessons
you learned from your spouse.
3.
Move from the place of victim to the place of the healed survivor.
4. Understand and take responsibility for your part in the breakup.
5.
Release guilt and shame and forgive yourself for your part in
the breakup.
6.
Learn to be kind to yourself. At the beginning, just getting out
of bed and breathing is enough. You get credit for that. Sleeping
and eating is your next goal. Anything after that is a gold star!
7.
Recognize the problems which were yours and work on them so you
don't repeat them in the next relationship.
8.
Gain clarity and acknowledge the marriage for what it was, not
what it purported to be to the world. What was the truth of your
marriage?
9.
Learn to release the "shoulds" from society, church, friends,
co-workers, and take responsibility only for what you authentically
are responsible for.
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"I
wish I had read Lori's book after my first divorce. It would
have probably saved me from experiencing a second."
Derek
D.
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10. Learn to be your child's advocate.
11.
Move into a place of happiness by taking baby steps. The workbook
lessons with transform you into different, more enlightened, wiser,
happier person.
12.
Acknowledge your strength. No matter how many marriages you have
had, you acknowledge yourself for being a person willing to risk
love, and with that vulnerability, recognize your courage.
13.
Develop enough faith and esteem in yourself to know that yes,
someday, you will love again.
4.
Learn to let go of your "marital dreams" and to create dreams
of your own.
15.
Learn how to put your children's needs ahead of your own to the
extent that you are able to make the divorce a grown-up decision
and not destroy the children's self-esteem or love for the other
parent.
16.
Embrace healthy, proven ways to comfort yourself, through journaling,
answering the questions in the book, meditation, friends, support
groups, dancing, massage, pedicures and pampering.
17.
Realize your own intuition is trustworthy and can guide you through
this process.
18.
Know that you might be scared, your future is unknown, and yes,
you can handle it all!
19.
Discover that your own self-care is a must for handling this time
in your life.
20.
Develop an emotional support system.
For
$24.95, your life can change, right now. Order the book, Transcending
Divorce: A Guide for Personal Growth and Transformation.
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21. Become a better parent, spend more quality time with your
children, and attuned to the needs of your children and validate
their feelings for the other parent.
22.
Gain power. Once you know you can handle the heartbreak of a divorce,
the other little road bumps of life seem pretty simple.
23.
Keep your power throughout the divorce and learn how to not give
your power away. Use the key questions in Chapter 2 to ask your
attorney, mediator or custody evaluator.
24.
Learn to accept and appreciate the feelings you have, not to fight
them, not to shame or should yourself. But really feel them; soon,
you recognize new feelings, those of acceptance, peace, neutrality.
25.
Learn to release black and white thinking and become more flexible
with your beliefs.
26.
Recognize the negative "gremlin" thinking, release the frequency
of "gremlin" thinking, and eventually replace it with positive
thoughts and intention.
27.
Learn to accept and dare I say, even LOVE yourself where you are,
right now.
28.
Learn to see your marriage, your past, through the eyes of gratitude
and appreciation. See it as a blessing, and you will attract many
more wonderful blessings into your life.
29.
Learn to develop new traditions and holidays.
30.
Gain clarity about your values and rules by which you live your
life. Which values were and which were not supported by your marriage.
For
$24.95, your life can change, right now. Order the book, Transcending
Divorce: A Guide for Personal Growth and Transformation.
And remember,
there is a 100% money-back guarantee on the book. |
Dare
to Transcend through your divorce
with Lori Rubenstein as your Divorce Coach
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