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I want you to really learn what it means to Transcend Divorce... so I'm offering you a free gift of a video where I talk about it. You'll learn the #1 myth of divorce, four common mistakes divorcing people make, why divorce is ultimately a GIFT for YOU, and how the lesson of forgiveness brings peace to your life.

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The Divorce Healing System™

Lori's signature program, The Divorce Healing System gently leads you through what may be the most challenging time of your life. In six months** you will move through the system's seven step healing process.

You are here because you do NOT want to live a life of anger, bitterness and hatred. You do NOT want to live your life as a victim, or worse, a martyr. If you are feeling abandoned, betrayed, unloved, unappreciated, confused, out of control, or scared, you need serious support. You do NOT want to live a life filled with hurt and pain to the point where you build a blockade around you to keep others away from you. And honestly, I do not want that for you either.

It is my honor, my passion, my dream to help you get through the tragedy of divorce, with your head held high. I understand every aspect of divorce. I was a child of divorce, I was divorced myself, I was a divorce attorney and mediator and now, as a divorce coach, I developed this amazing process to help YOU get where you want to be... in just six months!

What you can expect from The Divorce Healing System™

Move from confusion and frustration to a place of clarity
Gain insight of what went wrong in the marriage and develop an understanding and appreciation of the gifts of the marriage
Transcend the victim modality for a healthy sense of self esteem
Gain a balanced understanding of both spouses' roles in the break-up
Become an even better parent by learning how to support your children during this transition in their lives
Gain control over your finances, home, and most important, your attitude
Learn to develop greater self-respect and to implement boundaries when needed
Gain a sense of self-sufficiency and trust in yourself and your decisions
Develop a spiritual routine that helps you love and appreciate yourself, and keeps you grounded and well balanced
Embrace your future, dream again, plan again, and dare I even say, LOVE again
Through the process of forgiveness, develop feelings of freedom and peace
Learn to laugh, smile and have fun again
Discover and start living YOUR life purpose

Are you tired of feeling bad, of having to work so hard just to get up and face the day? Are you ready to start the healing process?

What would your life be like six months from now without all the pain, fear, anger, resentment?

What is included in The Divorce Healing System™?

Personalized one-on-one coaching three times a month with Lori, by telephone or Skype, as she leads you through the seven step Divorce Healing System. (Value: $3,240)

1. Holistic Assessment
2. Exhaustion and Energy Drains Addressed
3. Acceptance and Self-Discovery
4. Liberation from old thinking, belief and action patterns
5. Integrating a life of Integrity and Inspired Actions
6. Non-stop passion and personal development
7. Growth and Emergence of your new 'transcended' self

Step 1. Holistic Assessment
We will begin with a two hour initial intake session that will provide you with a serious reality check of where you are right now. We will deal with all emergencies, evaluate where you are in the legal system, finances, parenting and your own mental and physical health. If necessary, I may be referring you to a mental health specialist, physician, attorney, mediator, custody evaluator, financial planner or additional supportive persons.

We will examine whether your foundational needs (i.e., food, sleep, etc.) are being met and if not, we will make sure they are met. Obviously, you can not heal if you are sleep deprived.

Step 2. Exhaustion and Energy Drains Addressed
Probably the most exhausting element of divorce is the story you tell yourself in your head. We will deal with patterns of self-abusing thoughts, what I call "gremlins" (negative self-talk). We will work on eliminating the need to blame others for your situation.

You will learn to recognize and understand your feelings and not let your emotions run you. We will review and eliminate energy drains, tolerations, "shoulds", and clear clutter from your life. Effective action plans to effectively deal with these issues will be developed.

Step 3. Acceptance and Self-Discovery
We will continue dealing with 'gremlins', shoulds, frustrations and energy drains. Other issues to be dealt with during this period are dealing with overwhelm, developing boundaries, looking at any issues around co-dependency, clearing clutter, and looking at your divorce from a more realistic perspective. You'll start using positive language when speaking about your situation and will start seeing your situation from a new perspective.

We will start looking at who you are and who you want to be... examining and developing new values and rules that best serve a NEW you - the YOU that you wish to be. You can actually start the process of dreaming about the future.

Step 4. Liberation From Old Thinking, Belief and Action Patterns
This is where you start moving into the place of peace, through taking personal responsibility for your part of the breakup and by letting go of blame and resentment. You actually start to shift your reality by opening up to new spiritual perspectives, incorporating more flexible thoughts, beliefs, and actions. Understand the red flags and triggers you experienced in your marriage, so you learn to avoid them in the future. Triggers can be dealt with and released. This is you stepping into self-sufficiency. We discover what you need to be self-sufficient and be your very best self. NO MORE WHINING OR FEELING SORRY FOR YOURSELF.

A regular spiritual program is helpful in this stage, as is incorporating a healthy exercise routine.

Step 5. Integrating a life of Integrity and Inspired Actions
This is when I tell you it is time to step up and firm up all your learning up to now, because you enter the most difficult and most rewarding part of the whole process. You MUST do the work here, there is no sliding through. You will completely forgive your spouse, their relatives, and yourself. You might even need to forgive your children, parents and God. Once this step is complete, you will bring more gratitude into your life and be able to live free from the burdens that accompany pain, resentment, bitterness, hurt and anger.

Your dreams start taking shape and your actions move you in those directions.

Step 6. Non-stop Passion and Personal Development
There are several things going on in this step. First, we clean up any remaining issues in the legal process regarding custody, visitation, finances, housing, energy drains, and communication issues with your ex and your children.

Second, we will make sure your values and rules and boundaries are in place regularly.

Third, any walls that you put up to protect yourself need to come down now. You can face your fears and know that no matter what happens, you will be ok.

Finally, you create a vision for your future. You are feeling hopeful, and have incorporated new healthy habits into your life. You are having fun on a regular basis, and are actually looking forward to your new life!

7. Growth and Emergence of Your New Transcended Self
With your support network in place, you are ready to continue developing the life you love. Your dreams of feeling peaceful and content are a reality. You have goals that are supported with further action steps. At this point, you might be deciding whether you want to date, and we can talk about other ideas that will support you in that effort. This is where you leave the cozy, supportive nest of coaching, and fly out there in the world. I will always be there to support you if you need help down the road, but at this point, you should be able to do it yourself.

E-mail support (Value: $900)

All necessary work-sheets, meditations, written materials to support learning and processing of this material (Value: $497)

28 day Forgiveness E-mail Course (Value: $127)

HEALTHY love relationships are not possible without forgiveness! You cannot have a loving and rewarding relationship with anyone else, much less yourself, if you continue to hold on to things that happened in the past. Regardless of the situation, making peace with past love partners, your parents, children, your boss or anyone who you think may have "done you wrong" is the only way to improve your chances of a "healthy" relationship with yourself or anyone else for that matter! These daily classes come directly to your email box!

My Book, Transcending Divorce: A Guide for Personal Growth and Transformation (Value: $25)

With Transcending Divorce, you won't have to wait years for "time to heal all wounds." In fact, imagine that at the end of this journey, you feel more self-assured and confident with a strong knowing that the divorce not only happened for your benefit - but it was actually a gift? Yes.

I know that seems like a lot to promise. And, maybe you're not ready to hear that there could be anything good after the hurt, let alone something that can be seen as a gift. But that is exactly what Transcending Divorce delivers.

My Book, Freedom from Abuse: Finding Yourself Again (included if needed) (Value: $22)

This workbook takes a victim and turns her into a survivor, into a woman who thrives on her own in the world! The book will take you step by step, teaching you how to honestly look at yourself and to make the necessary changes in your own life to insure that you do not get into another abusive relationship.

The book answers the question, "How did you get in this place to begin with?" After all, no one grows up dreaming of a prince charming who is emotionally berating or physically abusive. The most important question, "How do I stay out of abusive situations?", is also addressed.

Transformation Through Forgiveness Audio Product (Value: $37)

In 26 easy steps, you can learn to dump that toxic garbage of your past so you can step into a clear, bright future.

Divorce is a Gift Class Audio (Value: $37)

The old paradigm of marriage is changing. We are now looking at spiritual partnerships and I believe that relationships are one of our best vehicles for learning and personal growth. When the lesson is over, the relationship can be released for a new lesson. This is the gift of divorce.

It is a time when we start asking important, life-altering questions such as who am I? How did I lose myself? What is my life purpose? Who am I without my husband?"

It is also a time where we really step into who we are, we learn what we are made of. I remember when I was married and working as a divorce attorney being so thankful that I didn't have to care for my kids alone, because I didn't think I could handle running a law practice and being mom. Well, when I went through my divorce, I learned I was so much more capable than I could ever have imagined.

Learn about how you can use your divorce as a spiritual path. Even if it's been years since your divorce, this class will awaken issues that may be dormant, that may affect your current or future relationships, and help open your heart to loving again.

Loving Yourself Audio (Value: $37)

Coaches Lori Rubenstein and Trudyann Ewan teamed up to lead an amazing discussion about whether it is really necessary to love yourself first before getting involved in a relationship with someone else. They address such issues as:

Have you loved someone else and not loved yourself?
Have you hated yourself and felt love for someone else?
How do you know if you adequately love yourself?
Why does everyone say you can't love someone else unless you love yourself?
Where does your self-esteem come from?
How does having good self esteem assist you in loving yourself and in relationships with others?

Breaking Down the Walls Audio (Value: $37)

This audio answers the following questions:

1. Why is it so difficult for professional women to have successful relationships?
2. What are the five reasons why professional women are particularly vulnerable to sabotaging their relationships?
3. How can letting down your walls actually strengthen and improve your relationships and happiness?

Two Meditations: Tao and Pathway Back to You (Value: $37)

The Tao Meditation was inspired by Wayne Dyer's book, Change Your Thoughts, Change Your Life. This will help you stay grounded and stable no matter what is happening around you. The Pathway Back to You was developed by me to help you gain clarity about who you are, what you are doing here, and how to connect consciously and seek guidance from your higher self.

Plus all the free bonuses on the website (Invaluable)

This includes the video about Transcending Divorce, the Divorce Blues audio to help you through the holidays, the interview with Kaleah LaRoche about the Abuse book, the Spirit of Ma'at interview that discusses the spiritual aspects of staying in an unhappy marriage versus divorce, access to all tele-classes and, of course, all the monthly articles and insights about Transcending Divorce.

Total Value for The Divorce Healing System™ $4,996

Your Price: $2,996 (save $2,000)
or 6 monthly payments of $550

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To Summarize:

The Divorce Healing System™ includes the following components:

1. 6 months of personal one-on-one coaching with Lori
2. Unlimited E-mail support
3. 28 Day Forgiveness E-mail Class
4. Transcending Divorce Book
5. Freedom from Abuse Book (if needed)
6. Transformation through Forgiveness Audio
7. Divorce is a Gift Audio
8. Loving Yourself Audio
9. Breaking down the walls Audio
10. 2 recorded Meditations
11. All the website bonuses and monthly insights/articles

Are you ready to stop feeling the pain and sadness of your divorce?

There is help, and the help is right here. Allow Lori to support you to feel whole again, to become part of the world again, and in fact, to become all that you were meant to be... living a life of purpose, with passion and the joy that comes from living a meaningful life.

Lori's guarantee and promise to you: I will accept no more than 10 people at a time in this program, so that I can give you the specialized, personal attention you need and deserve during this time in your life.

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** I can not guarantee that this program will be completed within 6 months if there are mental health issues, drug and/or alcohol issues, or abuse issues. From my experience, these issues prevent transcending through divorce in a rapid, 6 month manner and will need an 'add-on' of extra coaching time. We will discuss this when you begin coaching.

Transcend through your divorce
with Lori Rubenstein as your Divorce Coach