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Lori Rubenstein,
Divorce Coach

Are You the Yin or the Yang?

Pick the answer that is most right for you and circle the A or B. If you feel that neither applies, then pick the one that you find least repulsive.

1. My first reaction to a situation I do not want to be in is:
A. Fear
B. Anger

2. When someone asks to talk to me about something, my first thought is:
A. Oh no, what did I do now?
B. How can I help this person?

3. Which statement is most true:
A . My needs come first.
B. My needs are important, but I can take care of other’s needs first.

4. When I go out at night...
A. I park wherever I can get a space.
B. I park under a light or close to the entrance of a building.

5. Dealing in business I find that:
A. The outcome and success of the project is paramount.
B. The needs of the team are as important as the outcome.

6. Which appeals most to you:
A. Intuition
B. Rational thought

7. When I look atmyself in the mirror...
A. My natural tendency is to pick myself apart, piece by piece.
B. I think I look OK, it’s no big deal.

8. My overall feeling of marriage is that:
A. Love is the number one key.
B. Love has little to do with it.

9. I go to bed at night:
A. After the house is clean.
B. When I am tired.

10. I think about sex:
A. Numerous times of the day, every day.
B. Once in awhile.

Add up your scores

1.	A. Yin	B. Yang
2.	A. Yang	B. Yin
3.	A. Yang	B. Yin
4.	A. Yang	B. Yin
5.	A. Yang	B. Yin
6.	A. Yin	B. Yang
7.	A. Yin	B. Yang
8.	A. Yin	B. Yang
9.	A. Yin	B. Yang
10.	A. Yang	B. Yin

Add Yin Score ____  Add Yang Score ____
Just add a 0 to your score for the % yin/yang you have in you.
Are you the Yin or The Yang?