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OK, let's face it, if your life was picture perfect and you were exactly where you wanted to be, would you be searching the internet seeking answers?

Of course NOT!

Well, you came to the right place! Give yourself credit for finding your way to this website. Even though you are going through one of life's toughest transitions, you are taking charge and looking for ways to improve your current situation. I believe this site will provide some of those answers.

Transcending Divorce

Both the book and the website are committed to bringing you quality advice and to assist you in exploring all your options during this tough transition. My belief is that divorce can be a gift; and I am committed to bringing you the tools and support needed to help you discover your special gifts.

As Your Divorce Coach...

...I will be your guide to support you in growing emotionally and spiritually through this process. I will help you see the gifts of the marriage, discover who you are and bring you the promises of a better future, while learning acceptance, love, and compassion the present.

My coaching philosophy is that while I am there 100% for you, I will help you to take responsibility for your own life and to see that you are in charge of how you feel, as well as what and who you can be. I hold my clients as whole, healthy, creative and resourceful and I am ready to take the leap into the future with you.

Some benefits you will experience with divorce coaching are:

Gaining clarity about your life
Accepting personal responsibility for where you are (aka stop blaming others)
Seeing future options and perspectives
Hearing and listening to your intuition (inner voice)
Building a support network
Learning who you are
Discovering your life purpose
Evolving spiritually - creating a new YOU
Learning how to better deal with your children, who are also transitioning
Shifting your beliefs from victim mentality to being in control
Understanding the legal process during divorce - what you can and cannot change
New thinking 'outside the box' about what you need from this process
Becoming responsible for how you choose to respond to your former spouse
Creating a new relationship with your former spouse
Learning how to laugh and play more
Help with the attorney/client/mediator/custody evaluator relationships
Creating and attaining self-care goals
Improving your financial stability
Living a financially responsible and sustainable life style
Forgiving your spouse and yourself for your roles in the marriage

I bring you the professional advice of 18 years experience as a Divorce Attorney, as a Divorce Mediator with over 12 years experience, and as a Life Coach and Teacher of Transcending Divorce Workshops for over five years.

Additionally, I bring you my personal life experience as a child of divorced parents, with a stepfather, stepmother, and half sisters. As an adult I have been twice married and divorced. I've been a single mom, I've had a husband who was also a stepfather to my children, and I've been a stepparent to my husband's children. In other words, I have seen divorce from every angle. I view my life experiences as gifts, so I can be there for you, as your personal and professional life coach, to support you during and after your transformation.

What Lori's clients say about her

"You gave me the most sacred words of my life in inspiring me to see the 'high road' was the best choice for myself. I have never forgotten your words and their meaning and will feel eternally grateful for the spirit in which you gave them. Thank you for your presence. You have been blessed with the gift of 'essence' - it radiates in all you embrace." Shannon V.

"You were caring and sincere about my individual situation and it helped me through the legal process." Mara G.

"Although I wanted none of my husband's retirement, you outlined the reasons why I was entitled and you gently stood firm that though it was my decision to divorce, I was still deserving of at least a percentage." Jeri P.

"Lori helped me through a rough time using her holistic approach, not just helping with the divorce and custody issues, but also a person who was hurting." Marsha E.

"Lori, You gave me the courage and hope to keep going when things were rough... You were there to deal with the pressure I was under when I was so overwhelmed and I won't ever be able to thank you enough." Kristy K.

Dare to Transcend through your divorce
with Lori Rubenstein as your Divorce Coach